Below is a comment from a recent post. It outlines some common questions I often get from people who are starting the organic life. I’ve put in a number of links which should direct people to earlier posts, training recourses and books which are helpful for people at this stage of the journey.
Dear Ross,
I like your blog. It has been encouraging to me. My husband and I have been Christians for 17 yrs. We have left institutional church a year ago. We have led all types of evangelism in institutional churches. We haven’t really connected with anyone yet to start a house church, meaning an apostle or leadership and it hasn’t been for a lack of trying. We are in a holding pattern and not really sure what to do from here. We are in Tampa, FL. Did you just step out or were you connected with others?
Hi Melanie,
Thank you for your encouraging words. And thank you for your trust that I might be able to give you some advice. The most important thing when receiving advice is to listen to the voice of the Spirit to discern what is coming from God and what is just me.
1. Don’t stop loving our family in the institutional church.
One of the most important things is to not give up on our brothers and in the institutional church. Remember when you were there? You loved God and wanted to follow him and serve him. Many are still there with that same heart. But you’ve begun to see that the Emperor has no clothes, see Bedbugs in Our Suitcase. To love them and respect them doesn’t mean you have to go back. It also doesn’t mean you have to ignore the problems of the naked Emperor. It does mean that you have to be gracious, loving and chose when, how and with whom you speak about the Emperor’s lack of clothing.
2. Do reach out.
Since you understand evangelism, start working on relationships. For more advice on this see a recent post Sharing Jesus with Postmodern Friends. There are two kinds of evangelism: the evangelism of an apostle and the evangelism of what Jim Petersen calls an insider. It might be good to read Jim Petersen and Mike Shamy’s book The Insider: Bringing the Kingdom of God Into Your Everyday World. Here is a link where you can buy that book. You need to ask God if you are principally apostolic or he has placed you as an insider?
a. Apostles are looking for the man of peace. They tend to do very up front evangelism, often with supernatural acts. They really don’t care much if the majority ignores them if they can find the man of peace and get started in their oikos, their sphere of influence. From there the Gospel spreads; see What Is an Apostle?
b. Insiders are working with people who are already in their own sphere of influence. Most of us aren’t apostles. But we are all insiders. This kind of evangelism is bit by bit based on relationship, see Sharing Jesus with Postmodern Friends.
3. Make disciples who will reproduce.
For more on this see my post Organic Discipleship. Here the most important thing I can tell you is connect people with Jesus. They are his disciples, not yours. To do this you need to predominantly focus on skills, not information; again see the post Organic Discipleship for some of the skills I teach new disciples.
4. Get the basics of organic church.
To get the basics of organic church do your best to go to a Church Multiplication Associates Greenhouse. There you will be taken through the basics of Neil Cole’s Organic Church book. If you haven’t read it, read it now. But, don’t skip the Greenhouse. They are the same concepts, but two different experiences; one which deeply reinforces the other.
5. Get connected with others.
You asked: Did you just step out or were you connected with others? I’ve been in ministry since my first year of college in 1974; so I’m not afraid to “step out” and try something new. But, those who step out of the institutional way of doing things always go through detox, see: Bedbugs in Our Suitcase. Everyone’s story is different, but we all need to go through detox and detox takes longer than we want or expect. We always think we are through it, then realize God is working out something else out of our spiritual DNA. Having said that, it is always best to have partners. I’ll quote Petersen and Shamy on this. Partnering commits us to action. Most good intentions die of neglect before they’re born. We resolve to do something. Then we get busy and the idea slips away from us forgotten.[1]
- Does God have you on a journey into a more organic expression of the Christian faith?
- If so, where are you on that journey?
- What kind of recourses and advice do you feel you need for the place you are in your journey?
- Who can you partner with who can help you be faithful to God’s call on your life?
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[1] Jim Petersen and Mike Shamy, The Insider: Bringing the Kingdom of God Into Your Everyday World (Colorado Springs: NavPress, 2003), 183.




















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