We’ve all heard the saying Christianity is caught not taught. It’s true, but we hear it so often that it is easy to ignore. What does “Christianity caught” look like? How is that different than a taught version?
Here’s how I think Christianity is caught. How did you become a member of your family? After all, don’t you not only reflect your national culture, be it Australian, British, Spanish or American, but participate in your family’s culture? Some families argue and “get it all out.” Others would be horrified by such behavior and would rather be silent and let the tension blow over. We all reflect our family’s culture. Yet, I’d be willing to wager that none of us have had a class in Jones Family Culture 101. We have probably never had our parents sit us down at the kitchen table, ask us to take out our notebook and begin to lecture on how this family works, point by point.
How then do we catch our family culture? We observe it, mostly tacitly. We participate in it without even thinking about it. We discuss issues and end up being persuaded that this is the right way to do things. And, we observe others outside of our family subculture and feel uncomfortable when they end up violating our family norms. In short, it is absorbed through participation.
Here’s an example. I led a guy to the Lord a few years ago. We’ll call him David. My friends and I began to meet at David’s house with some of David’s family and friends to disciple them. One of the things my friends and I did, without really thinking about it, was to pray for people while putting our hands on their shoulders. We also asked before we did this and when the person agreed, we all got up as a group, gathered around and prayed.
One day David’s family asked my friends and me out to lunch in a nice restaurant. They wanted us to meet one of their friends, who I will call Jake, so we could have spiritual influence in Jake’s life. In the course of the conversation David, now about a month or two old in the Lord, asked Jake if we could pray for him. Keep in mind this is in a crowded restaurant. Jake liked that idea. Before we knew it David had jumped to his feet, put his hand on Jake’s shoulder and began to pray out loud (which of course, we also had modeled to him).
I never intentionally taught David this was “the” way to pray. But I did model it for him. Had he been a bit older in the Lord, it is likely his understanding of the practice of prayer would have been much more nuanced. I was intentionally discipling David. But that really didn’t amount to much more than bring up a subject with his family and friends and discussing it and investigating the subject in the Bible or ministering to them in some way. Yet, David, his wife and friends learned quite a bit beyond the “subject matter.” In fact, they probably learned much more through participant observation than through intentional teaching.
Let me make another observation about catching our faith. When someone doesn’t “catch” something from us, it is doubtful that it was specifically because we failed to have a formal class it the subject. If they didn’t catch it, it was because they didn’t want to catch it, or had not observed it enough to fully yet grasp it. But I personally doubt that it had anything to do with lack of formal class time.
Here’s yet a further observation about catching our faith (and giving it away). I can’t think of a single issue in our faith, including formal doctrine that can’t be caught instead of taught. In fact, in my opinion, teaching in a classroom format often ends up causing the subject matter to only be caught in the head and ends up missing the heart.
- How much of your faith has really been caught?
- The things you were taught, how deeply are they integrated into your heart, not merely your head?
- Could it be that we teach formally because that’s what we’ve caught from others? Isn’t that ironic?
- What would a discipleship ambiance look like that forsook “formal” teaching? Could it still develop excellent disciples of Christ, teaching them to observe all that He commanded?












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